A Necessary Piece

“Some of the wise will stumble, so that they may be refined” (Daniel 11:35). Your stumbling ways never catch God off guard. In fact, he will use them – every time. The Hebrew word used for “refined,” in our verse, means to complete or perfect. God will make you better, stronger, healthier, and more sober…

Questions

We don’t ask enough questions. We prefer to give answers instead. But it hasn’t always been that way. As children, we ask 125 questions a day. By adulthood, that number dwindles to six. Somewhere between childhood and adulthood, we lose 119 questions per day. That’s too bad because you can learn something from everyone you…

Wimpy

Do you remember Wimpy, a character from the popular Popeye cartoon? Wimpy always wanted a hamburger. In one cartoon, he said, “I’ll gladly pay you for a hamburger tomorrow if I can have it today.”  That is the voice of an addict. We want deferred payment. “I’ll take a little pleasure today, as long as…

Self-Addiction

William Gladstone said, “Selfishness is the greatest curse of the human race.” Consider yourself cursed. I’d say addicts are selfish, but I’d be repeating myself. We are the definition of selfishness. I have a friend who has been sober for over 20 years. I observed as a newcomer to recovery asked him, “Why do you…

Good Disaster

“The Lord did not hesitate to bring disaster on us” (Daniel 9:14).  I’m guessing that is not your favorite memory verse, one you stick on the mirror at home. But it’s true. God will not hesitate to bring disaster – for a greater purpose. One of my Recovery Rules: God loves you more than he…